Posted by: Jeremy McKenna on 12/8/2010 | 0 Comments
I’m mad as hell about the way our elderly population—our parents, relatives, our senior relatives and friends—are shoved aside, tormented, victimized and abused.  I'm madder than hell that a loving husband could murder his wife, an early-stage Alzheimer's victim, then commit suicide--and anyone, ANYONE, would consider the crime an "act of love."   

Hudson, Wisconsin (population 11,913) is a typical Midwestern river town.  Snuggled alongside the St. Croix River, the boundary that separates Wisconsin and Minnesota, the historic downtown area spans approximately six blocks, running from the SSG gas station at Second and Coulee Road on the southern edge up to Art Doyle’s Spokes and Pedals, just north of Second and Locust.

Of course, the little town has its share of Dairy Queens, KFCs, and Best Westerns, but there's also a Dibbo's Cafe & Bar, an Idaho Chuck's Santa Fe Grill & Cantina, and the aforesaid Art Doyle's bike shop.  Trendy boutique shops--Abigail Page Antiques, Back to Books, Elan, and many more--enhance Hudson's walkability and allure.

Like many other small towns in the Midwest, Hudson is almost entirely white--Caucasians make up 98 percent of the population; well educated--95 percent have at least a high school education; and safe—on a scale of one to 10, with one being the lowest, Hudson’s violent crime rate is two.  Indeed, during the past eight years, the city has recorded only seven murders.

Hudson is where Claire and Betty Erickson went to high school, married, raised their four children, and prospered over the years.  Claire was the founder of the Erickson Oil/Freedom convenience store chain.  His 800 employees work in stations sprinkled around small towns from Wisconsin to South Dakota.

Perched on a bluff overlooking the sparkling St. Croix, 1003 Crest View Drive in Hudson is where Claire and Betty lived for 51 years and where they raised their four children.  1003 Crest View Drive also is where Claire spent nearly a thousand days and nights caring tenderly for Betty, gradually descending into the misty gloom of Alzheimer’s, and where, sometime during the night of March 24th, Claire shot Betty to death and turned the gun on himself.

Although their children and grandchildren were aware that they had become less active in recent months, the Ericksons celebrated their 60th anniversary with them in Florida on March 18th.  During one of their talks, Claire told his son, David, that he'd been experiencing vertigo for several weeks, and that he was "tired" and "weary."  What worried David was something else Claire told him:  "You know, if anything ever happens to me, your mother will have to go into a home, because she cannot take care of herself."

David, concerned, convinced Claire to let him drive them back to Wisconsin.  They started out early on the 24th, and arrived in Hudson mid-evening.  The following morning, at about 10:30, their daughter and her husband found Claire and Betty lying in bed, dressed in their pajamas, looking "peaceful."

An act of love?  Compassion?  Or something worse, much worse? "I have no doubt what he did was out of love for the three of us siblings," said David Erickson. "I think he was just tired and knew her situation wasn't going to get any better."

Experts disagree.  Doctor Donna Cohen, a professor in the Department of Aging and Mental Health Disparities at the Louis de la Parte Florida Mental Health Institute, established the Aging Studies program at the University of South Florida.  Noting that caregiving is "almost impossible," Cohen believes that caregiver stress increases the risk of homicide/suicide.  "Murder-suicide," she argues, "Almost always is not an act of love. It's an act of desperation."  Although some equate murder-suicide with assisted suicide, Cohen disagrees.  "It usually is not the same. This is suicide and murder.''

Warning signs. Claire Erickson's actions resembled a blueprint that is common in murder-suicides among the elderly.  As Dr. Cohen observes, "Some older men try so hard to hold their heads high, to not ask for help with the stress of caregiving,  They cope as best they can with a depression they feel but can't acknowledge."

According to researchers, although each murder-suicide involving older people is unique, there are certain common elements.  A recent study by the Violence Policy Center 
found that the percentage of murder-suicides involving a firearm is approximately 90 percent; those in which the killers were male, 95 percent; and those involving intimate partners that also occurred in the home, approximately 75 percent each.

To summarize, the components of a murder-suicide are the following:

        The murderer is male;
        He uses a gun to commit the crime;
        He and his victim are intimate partners, often a husband and his wife; and
        He commits his crime at home.

The VPC study determined that "unique factors may drive murder-suicide among the elderly," observing that older people rarely commmit suicide, and do so primarily when the declining health of the victim, the murderer, or both is present.

The study cited a Kansas murder-suicide case that is eerily similar to the Ericksons'.  The 89-year old husband shot his 88-year old wife while she was lying in their bed; he was found lying next to her with a self-inflicted gunshot wound.  Neighbors told police that the wife had recently been hospitalized and was very ill.

After analyzing the facts and circumstances of hundreds of these cases, researchers have concluded that there is a pattern that is typical in virtually all murder-suicide cases involving the elderly:

        The man kills the woman in their bedroom with a gun, something he has planned for weeks and perhaps for months.  This means that the act is premeditated, the essential element that the criminal law requires for a conviction of first-degree murder;

        The woman has Alzheimer's disease or a related illness.  The man, who is the primary caregiver, is depressed, perhaps ill, definitely exhausted and extremely stressed;

        The woman is rarely a willing or knowing participant, and is usually killed in her sleep; and

        The man almost always mistakenly believes that his act is a merciful one, that he is putting the woman out of her misery. In fact, however, he is merely bring an end to his own.

Prevention. Looking back, which we humans can do with perfect vision, perfect clarity, and perfect perception, there may have been multiple opportunities to prevent the horrific Erickson deaths.  Experts emphasize the importance of recognizing such omens as a health change in an elderly, long- and happily-married couple.  In one study she conducted in Florida, Cohen discovered that fully two-thirds of the men who committed murder-suicide had visited their doctors less than three weeks before the act; none, however, had been treated for depression.

A single 10-minute doctor visit is unlikely to reveal an elderly man's depression, however.  Patrick Arbore, Director of the Center for Elderly Suicide Prevention at the Goldman Institute on Aging, says, "We can't really pass the buck to the physician here. It's important for adult children and members of the community to pay attention and to listen--to really listen--to what these older people are saying.  Sometimes comments like 'I'm going to kill myself' are so provocative that we can't believe it and let it go by."

Other factors, such as changes in eating or sleeping, talk about feeling helpless or hopeless, a loss of interest in normal activities--these are signs of depression, according to Dr. Cohen, as is an elderly husband's remark about the need for care for his wife "should anything happen to me."

Experts agree that suspicions demand aggressive action.  Cohen, for example, urges an adult child to question her father directly: "Have you ever thought about suicide?  Have you thought about killing someone else and then killing yourself?"  If the answer is yes--or not an unqualified no--the follow-up question should be about his plans.  The more detailed they are, the more likely they will occur.

A reasonable concern about the possibility of murder-suicide should cause an immediate intervention--a call to a suicide crisis center or hotline, an intensive search for weapons in the house, and perhaps an ambulance trip to a medical emergency room or a psychiatric center,

What's the lesson?  Cohen says that "The lesson is to be aware, take the signs seriously, start talking and try to get help. You still may fail, but you will never regret trying."



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